Don't Worry, Be Happy

Life might be tough, but it's fun!
I just married last two weeks, it was the busiest time for me in my life. I couldn't even sleep or rest well since half year ago. I needed to prepare for marriage photo shooting, set up my bride room, buy all necessities for our wedding actual day, attend the Internet marketing course, participate in Toastmaster meeting, taking care of my dad's grocery shop, helping my fiance (now she is my wife) to set up her tuition center, attend company sales meeting, carry out daily work tasks, and lastly is to set up my own business! All these things came to my life simultaneously! Oh my god!

I find myself couldn't even breath when I was dealing with all those big 'projects'. I started to be upset, demotivated, and the worst is depressed! I tried to evade from those problems that arose hope for someone that can help me to solve them. But I was wrong, the problems grew bigger and bigger! That's terrible!

Don't worry, be happy!
I told myself, I must find the solution for all these mess. One day, as usual, I attended the Toastmaster meeting and the theme of the meeting was "Don't worry, be happy". The toastmaster of the evening (abbrev TOE), had shared a very good point that awaken me. He said life itself is a choice, it's between the choice to choose happiness or sadness. We are the commander of our life, we determine how life is going to be. It's all depend on our final decision. If we see something as in negative view then we will get a negative result, why don't we see it in positive view then we will be happy and motivated to continue the life.


From his sharing, I started to put his view into my own situation. I have a lot of big 'projects' on hand, I know they are going to be tough. If I keep on grumbling on those problems that arise, then no doubt I will be tension and loss focus. However, if I take it as a chance or challenge that can improve my tasks handling skill or experiences then it sounds like motivational route for me! Thus, starting from that minute, I told myself I needed to change my perception on those challenges. I needed to change my attitude on those challenges. I needed to change my behaviour. I needed to equip myself with more skills or knowledge. And as I made the change, my world had also changed.


Come on, just CHANGE!
Today, I still stand strong to face all the obstacles! I haven't achieve the objectives or targets, but no matter how hard they are I am going 'fight' until the end! Even though they may be never ending story but I know I am always happy if I change to a positive mind! Thanks to the TOE! I hope every one in this world can make a change if they feel they need to. Regards.


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